There have been a lot of beautiful and inspiring stories this week, the one that gives other people hope. In University of Western Ontario’s comfort room or washroom particularly in the ladies, are vandalized walls and doors. Most of them of wrote their own horrifying life stories but out of all these written sad stories came a reply written in a torn page of a notebook and taped in the bathroom door. The note was her message to the rape victim, the girl with the eating disorder, the girl with an alcoholic father, the girl whose father dies and to all the stories she had not yet read. She ended her note saying “you are worthy, you are strong, you are brave, you are loved, and somebody cares”.
Out of all the pain and hatred that someone feels, it is nice to know that some people out there have a good heart to care and encourage those who are down and miserable. People who are in pain are lost and they need someone that will guide them and lift them up in their predicaments. It may be a simple gesture but to someone it may be their last hope.
I have great friends all the way from primary school and I consider myself the lucky one. Good friends are hard to find when you are older but when you are just a naive child everybody can be your friends after five minutes knowing them. Fortunately for me, my friends were the right ones from the day 1. We shared secrets, and what the secrets they were.
Today we like to remember the old, high school and college days. Boys meant everything to us and every story is connected to some love adventure. If our parents knew about one third of it their hearts would explode. But that is all the part of growing up and I hope I will understand my child one day when he starts to sell me all those bad excuses. I would like to act crazy on them off course and let him experience all those feelings that build a personality.
I love workout and have been involved in many sport activities during my life. These days I’m doing simple aerobic as I had a baby recently and need to bring my good shape back. When i saw my body into the mirror just two days after the c section, in the hospital apartment bathroom, i wanted to scream. It was very unpleasant scene. There was a stranger in that mirror and i hated her. I couldn’t believe that the gorgeous pregnant woman can turn into a rug in just two days.
But there she was, taking my place instead of me and making me desperate. My husband tried to be nice comforting me it will go away soon, i didn’t believe him. So i started to do some exercise on my own, bought a DVD and lay down in front of TV. I was feeling much better. Today I am my old me again, in a good shape and happy. It took some time to get here but all the effort paid off the first time i saw old me in the mirror.
My life became much different than the one I had imagined. Love is responsible for that difference, off course. What else could make a woman waving her promising carrier and move on a far?. As silly as it sounds, I moved on my husband’s farm. Even worse, I moved on his parents’ farm which he will inherit eventually. So I am at the countryside, smelling cows, pigs and chickens. I have been successfully avoiding mice so far therefore I consider myself a lucky one.
Some will think I’m crazy for giving up many benefits prior life had been offering me and some will say I made the right decision. I don’t know in which group I belong but I do know that I am happier than ever before. So it has to mean something. Maybe my life would be even better if I stayed in the city but we have to live with our decisions and try to do our best in life we chose.
I’m up at 6AM this morning. It wasn’t easy to wake up but obligations are here so it was a must. No I’m waiting for coffee to be over so I can drink it at start on my tasks. I hope this is going to be a good day because yesterday was a lousy one. My son is teething and he was hanging on me the whole day. I don’t have anything against it but he is heavy and my whole body is hurting me today.
Day had just become better. I’ve got the job that I applied to. It’s a nice feeling when they pick me as the right person. It motivates me for further self improvement. I know that a person has to work on her skills if she wants long term success. It is the only way for me to be competitive in this big labor market. Unemployment is enhanced so I must possess skills that will separate me from the crowd.
I had an affair once, with a married guy. I’m not proud of it but it is a significant part of my past so I respect it. If weren’t for that relationship I wouldn’t know how to appreciate my marriage. Maybe it sounds crazy but having an affair with a married man had thought me how to act with my husband. It was long before my marriage started but still it influenced a lot. I loved the guy and he did love me but that love was surreal.
You cannot love somebody completely before you live with them under the same roof. Lovers just steal time from a regular life and turn it into a love fairytale which won’t have a happy ending but a bitter one indeed. It’s not weird people are getting involved in such complicated situations when a real life starts to make them feel undesirable and dissatisfied with their choices. That is why I am working on my marriage on a daily basis, not letting anything to the case.
I’m looking for a book that will teach me how to use the search engine optimization strategy for improving my web site visibility. My thoughts are often related with SEO and I have been wondering how to use those tools on my own. It shouldn’t be as complicated as I already possess diploma in Economics but unfortunately they didn’t teach us about SEO there at all.
Our educational system goes in the wrong direction while teaching us less important facts and neglects more useful information that could serve businessmen in this modern Internet age. As I wanted to learn more of the topic I did some research of my own and found out there was a SEO guide for dummies, just the one I needed. I’m still a SEO dummy but after finishing the book I hope I’ll be one step closer to the experts and won’t need to hire them in the future.
My son has to go on a surgery soon. It’s not complicated operation but still I’m a bit scared. When I was pregnant there was no fear about baby’s future life but these days things had changed. My husband is feeling much worse though and when I see him I realize how brave and optimistic women are. Men don’t handle such situations as well as we do, that’s for sure. Therefore I just want my baby boy to go on a surgery as soon as possible so we can continue living our happy life after these lousy few days.
People shouldn’t be postponing things that will happen eventually even without their influence as longer they wait they will feel worse. This especially refers on baby issues. We cannot deny the problem but take care of it immediately. Modern medicine has minimum of chances for failure in such simple procedures so I’ll focus on the fact he will be given in the right hands.
I use many ingredients when I am preparing a mulled wine. The sort of wine isn’t as important as the need of putting the proper spices’ amounts and of writing down the best recipe. I found the best recipe for me so I can enjoy the same perfect taste every time. I make mulled wine at many occasions during the cold winter period. My friends, for example, like to drink it when they are visiting.
The catch is that the mulled wine will stun you faster than the regular one so I am very careful about the quantity. There is no need for me to get drunk while I just want to spend the evening in peace. When I have a plan on getting wasted then my husband isn’t involved. He doesn’t like to drink much, just occasionally and in weird situations. I am a bit different but fortunately my friends are too so we steal time and allow ourselves that pleasure.
Last night my husband and I enjoyed drinking a mulled red wine. It is our favorite way of spending the cold winter nights together. Sitting there in the living room besides the fireplace and having long talks is making our marriage works. Those couples who don’t spend a quality time together lose their communication and become strangers who live in the same house.
I wouldn’t want that to happen to us so I try to make our every day a bit special in order to remind us about the reasons we hooked up in the first place. The secret of a long marriage is an understanding. Off course, a lot of sex has to be involved and a bit of a jealousy as well. Love is a general term which consists of many phases and emotions so everybody can find their way of being in love. The most important thing is to never give up the love.